McDreamy or McVet?

LadyRain:

McVet. I like animals… joke! I guess for safety. For a lifetime decision, I’d choose someone who’ll have me as his world over someone who is capable of changing his mind on me at any moment.

WoodBeetle:

Now wait one darn McMinute there…McDreamy, contrary to popular opinion, is not flaky. He only hooked up with Meredith because his wife cheated on him (why she did so is another topic altogether). The fact that he tried to work on his marriage after Meredith is proof that he is as safe as the next guy. McDreamy has to be given credit for at least trying to make things work with Addison despite her infidelity and despite the fact that he was fast realizing that he loved Meredith (note I did not use the phrase “falling in love with” as this denotes the flaky tendency to “fall out” of the feeling).

LadyRain:

True. I mean, he really did fight for his wife. But, still he turned his back on Meredith (not to mention that he actually turned his back on his wife when she had moments of unfaithfulness… and I thought marriage is about “till death do us part”). And for me, once a guy does this, he can do it again and again. Especially if he knows you’d take him back faster than he says “I’m sorry.”

WoodBeetle:

Okay, point taken, but still…McDreamy is the guy who totally gets Meredith. They so get each other that they usually don’t have to explain themselves. And that my friend is why, McDreamy would win over McVet. Sure, McVet is gorgeous, safe and kind…but does he know what she wants? And can he give her the same “fireworks” as McDreamy??? I mean, have you seen the chemistry between the two? Its Hiroshima and Nagasaki rolled into one. Totally explosive!

LadyRain:

Maybe not yet. But they have started as friends (versus starting off one night when both were just horny). And who said you can’t develop chemistry over time? Imagine, everyday as an adventure of getting-to-know-you’s and trial-and-funny-errors of trying to find out what makes each one smile, laugh, cry…
Do you mean, you’d prefer one explosive summer (okay, maybe one year), with each day having to look over your shoulders checking if the ex-wife is there, over a lifetime of friendship, trust, acceptance and peace of mind?

Blooferlady:

Can't we get a cross between the two? A McDreamyVet? Yeah, yeah, you'll probably say, "Dream on, Blooferlady," but really, I'm sure there are untapped resources there somewhere.
The question I guess is, where the hell are they?